2-minute BFFs

Since I’m on the road just about every other week for my job, I’m very familiar with what I’ll call the “2-minute BFF.” This person is the one you meet in the grocery store, who is trying to also reach for the same random item, but is equally short and can’t seem to grab it either. Or the girl also trying on shoes in Marshall’s, who is also walking around in a pair of heels to try them out before buying. And also that smiling waitress/cashier/barista/whoever that you come in contact with throughout the day. You chat with them a little, probably share a laugh or two, and then go on your merry way, smiling happily after hanging out with the 2-minute BFF.

I recognize these people easily, as I am frequently one of them. As an extrovert, I tend to keep an eye out for people that I can have these exchanges with. I used to marvel at my grandmother as she made a friend everywhere she went. In my own way, I do the same thing – especially when I’m travelling. Although I love it, there is something lonely about being in a strange place. I use my GPS to head all over the place after I leave campus and find myself in little random towns. And when I come across the people that I interact with, I oftentimes just want to hug them after the 2 minutes. I want to say, “I’m actually not from around here…yes, I’m travelling for work….I know, I’m ready to retire too, haha…thanks, I love my coat too….no, you’re prettier…” You get the point.

It’s nice to know that even if I have a long day on campus or spend an office day holed away in my apartment or the library – I can depend on my 2-minute bffs, who are scattered around me. I know they’re out there and our run-ins are always spontaneous. But I want to give a shout-out to them and let them know, you make my 2 minutes worth it, every time. So thank you and keep being your cheerful selves. I look forward to our next chat :)